Monday, June 19, 2006

Extended Thoughts on "the real meaning...

*I've tried emailing this post for the first time on St. Peter's [blog] because blogger.com is being super slow.

**As I come back from vacation, the emailed post came in as a "draft" and was not published. So here it is, 2 weeks late (but July 3, as promised!). Apologies for the formatting.

As I mulled on David Seaman's "The Real Meaning of Life" last week, I stumbled on some new insights and ideas, collected below. I'm on vay-kay after today, so probably no post next week, check back 7/3 after CrossWalk has been through town!

- ) An overwhelming majority of entries on the "real meaning of life" included an emphasis on sensory experience. Seeing, feeling, tasting, and hearing things (and almost always, novel things - we have an appetite for the new).

- ) "There is a fine line between platitudes and the rules we choose to govern our existence." So true. This is a much better way to say what I meant in the previous post about generalities/transcendent truth.

- ) Make it better has a corollary I forgot to include in the original post. Remember that "life is good" can be reduced to "human beings have an innate preference for existence over non-existence" (which is a much poorer statement, but can still yield important meaning). "Make it better" has a minimal iteration, Do no harm. Even such a basic principle can be transforming when taken deeply into consideration.

- ) About "subjectivity" - Many entries include a statement like "the meaning of life is whatever you make it" or "whatever you want it to be." As seriously as we take our own subjectivity and its existential implications, we are all human subjects. I am very interested in seeking the human universals that we share because of that. Going a step farther, imagine the universe of living subjects; are there universal meanings or attitudes that all life might share? Meanings that are not strictly necessary or objectively true (therefore "subjective") but universal anyway? (I'm not sure what a non-living subject might be - perhaps artificial intelligence? - but admitting the possibility at least).

- ) Because of Peter's entry (which I will quote next), I realized that subversiveness is for me a sign of divine truth, or a "thin place" (to use Marcus Borg's langauge). Not always, but it's a good indicator. I think of Jesus' parables, which are often subversive: remember the father's love for his lost son in "the prodigal son" story, or the good Samaritan. These truths turn our expectations upside-down. Of course, not everything subversive is thin for me, but it's a flag that tells me to look closer.

- ) The entry that will stick with me the longest is Peter Davison's on page 193. It is unique in the book in its subversion of the original question. It questions what we mean by the word "meaning." Peter does talk about the fulfillment of human purpose, which I'm interested in as well; he's not a nihilist.

"Just as there is no speed of the sky, no weight of happiness, no batting average of my car, no consensus of the clouds, there is no meaning of life. Meaning is not a word that applies to 'life.'

A quest for meaning is equivalent to a quest for water. It's simply an intrinsic human need. What in other animals would generally be the physiological and mental impetus to find and environment with better food and mating prospects equates in the more advanced human brain with a quest for meaning.

As evidence, consider that no one ever finds the meaning of life - they simply become suitably satisfied by love, children, or career, and these become the outcomes of the quest and human fulfillment of purpose.

So, in summary, if you are ever consistently hounded by longings to uncover the meaning of life, it's you telling yourself that something is missing in your existence. Stop reading books about the subject - that's the equivalent of reading romance books when you're lonely. Get out and open yourself up to new experiences. You're being set up for an internal battle with your own desire for security.

Tuesday, June 13, 2006

The real meaning of life

"I was sitting with my laptop at a cafe in New York City trying to avoid writing a paper for my first year humanities class. In a moment of despair, I typed 'What is the meaning of life?' into an online forum. Fifty thousand hits and two thousand answers later..."
writes David Seaman on the cover of his book, "The Real Meaning of Life." A friend gave me Seaman's collection of thoughtful answers from everyday people recently ($3, used, on good authority).

As I began to read through them in five- and ten-minute bites, I was surprised to find a thread running through nearly all of the responses. I wonder if it may be a deep human warp, tip-toeing the line between generalities that skirt meaninglessness, and observations so widely shared that they suggest a drop of transcendent truth. They may seem obvious but, like the Golden Rule, can effect a transformation in one's living when taken seriously.

Life is good. And its corollary, don't be afraid! If not stated outright, these thoughts often appear in variations of the phrase, "the purpose of life is to live." It's a vision of life as an ongoing play of possibilities and experiences, in which simple existence or be-ing are good in themselves. My inner existentialist would strip the rich statement "life is good" down to "human individuals have a selfish, unfounded preference for their own existence over non-existence," but even nihilistic Aleesha on page 35 and "We're only here to reproduce" Doug on page six agree that at its heart, life is good. Now what?

Make it better. Life's goodness implies the possibility for different kinds of goodness! Consistently we respond to the life we see around us with the desire to make it better through design and nurture, work and creativity. Making life more beautiful, more just, more peaceful, or even simply new and different. "Better" is not the same as "perfect," and it comes in all shapes and sizes. Darice dreams big dreams for indigenous peoples on page 149, while Katy sticks with "Do your best" and "Forgive" (209). The desire to make life better seems to grow outward from an individual's perspective to include more and more others in life's goodness.

Many of the responses in Seaman's book describe humanity's ultimate separateness or oneness. I don't know quite what to make of the authors who are utterly convinced of the truth of their favored outlook that "we are all one" or "we are all alone." I feel a kind of yin-and-yang or true paradox here, understanding both real connection with others and real boundaries in relationships. From the bubble of my own experience, I can bump up with other bubbles and still share something real and meaningful.

I'm amazed and encouraged by the people who write that life has "no meaning," and proceed to describe the meaning that they've found in their lives. Most who say that life is meaningless live like at least their own life is good, and from there it's a short hop to discovering that others' lives are also good. Even those who claim life means "whatever you want it to mean" almost always affirm that life is good, and respond by trying making it better. We all seem to want that hope and calling.

Looking back, I notice that I haven't mentioned love. Many of the responses in Seaman's collection do. Maybe love is the way that this conviction ("life is good") and its response ("make it better") are made concrete in an individual's life and how they relate to others. I've lived my life in a faith tradition that supports me in asking big questions like Seaman's "What is the meaning of life?" Our search for truth leads us to the asking, the answering, and the asking again.

It's hard to sum up, but I like the realism and cautious hope of Jim Gossens' answer on page 146; "Life sucks - but it's a little more interesting than the alternative."

Monday, June 12, 2006

Monday Ba-da-da-daa

I'm working on about sixteen different drafts: Jerry Chapman's music, "the real meaning of life," Kanye West, Bishop Carlton Pearson, Ohio 2004 and Chris at Church World Service, our most common fears as a nation.

I'll post whatever gets finished first. Thanks for hanging in there, -howie

PS - If you haven't, visit the CrossWalkers at http://blog.crosswalkamerica.org . In KC June 27-29!!!111

Monday, June 05, 2006

Insight! Events *Updated!

East Hill Singers
Sunday, June 11 - 4:00 pm

Atonement Lutheran Church
9948 Metcalf, Overland Park, KS.
FREE / Free will offering.

The East Hill Singers are a chorus of inmates from Lansing Correctional Facility, along with volunteers from greater Kansas City. They perform from a repitoire including works by Verdi and Beethoven, traditional gospel music, Russian folk songs, and Broadway tunes.

More information on the East Hill Singers:
http://www.artsinprison.org/ArtsinPrison4.htm
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2006/jan/20/choir_conviction/

Call Howie (816) 942-1155 for ride-share requests.


Shakespeare in the Park - King Henry V
Sunday, June 25

Southmoreland Park, 47th & Oak, KC MO
Next to the Nelson-Atkins Museum & Art Institute
Outdoors - bring lawn chairs / blankets!
FREE - more info at www.kcshakes.org

Jody will stake out our spot at 6:00 pm - come early and bring your own picnic dinner! The show begins at 8 pm.